It's a long story and there are a lot of details but my dad and I just got into a fight and I REALLY need help?

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Okay, I moved to VA from OH a few days ago and my mom and dad drove me down here with my 2 cats and some of my stuff. I got mugged like 3 days before I left OH and I lost all forms of id and had to cancel all my credit cards. I paid to have the house furnished and all, the only things I had to do when I got down here were get some paperwork from my husband (he's in training here at Fort Eustis and I moved here to be closer to him), sign my lease and shop for a few things for the house. We drove my mom's car, I paid for the gas, my mom wound up paying for the hotel, and I provided a house for us the rest of the stay and even gave them my bedroom. Well, it's their last day here and my dad has been treating me like shit all day long, we went shopping for a tv and found a really nice one at the thrift store for like 200 (my alternative was to rent one from a rent a center place, which is what I wound up doing), but when I said I thought it was a good idea he jumped completely down my throat and started telling me about how I didn't have the money and all that and I should get a little 65 dollar one that I already have a better version of back in OH and would just wind up throwing away. When I explained this to him he jumped my shit telling me I was being unreasonable and he was just going to leave and I could do it my damn self and started calling me a spoiled ****ing brat so we just came back home. Later on when I needed to go get a tv stand for the one I rented and a bed set he wanted to come along, I told him I had to go to the grocery too, him and my mom are leaving and I will have to take the bus bc I didn't bring my car. Well, we get to Kmart and I found a decent one for about 100, he was supposed to help me buy it bc he knew i didn't have much money left and I have supplied him with everything from food to shelter to smoke (now half my pot is gone too thanks to him but he can go back to ohio and get more- I am quitting smoking when I run out so thanks to him for that one too!) and my mom has bought whatever I haven't. Well, he decides he needs to go out of the store and call about a pizza, but not before he tells me to get the cheap 25 buck stand that my cats will jump up on and cost me 2,500 bucks to replace the tv that will be on it. So I wound up just getting the bed stuff and leaving, I was starting not to feel well any way (as of right now me and my husband are trying to have a baby and I am not sure whether we were successful or not but we gave it the good ol college try and I've felt like hell for the last 2 weeks, I go to the dr next week) and realized I hadn't eaten all day but I was so sick to my stomach I really needed to go home. Well, my dad says he wants to go by the pizza place, not just any place either- the one that is like10 miles in the opposite direction of my house and we were already 10 miles away from my house. Well, I just flat out told him what was going on and that I was going home and I kept waiting for him to pull up the nav system for me but he was taking forever and I was feeling worse. So I started going back the way I came, I remembered it up until about halfway- which was when he got the nav system going. So it told me to turn around and I was worried I had went the wrong way so I listened to it, reeeaaaaaalllllly needing to get back home by now. So 20 minutes later I see the destination, it says arriving at Dino's pizza place on right! Turns out I had made it halfway back to my house when he re-routed us out of the city and halfway to the beach. I was about to murder him and told him I couldn't believe he would do that to me and not even say anything and I didn't know why he even came, the mother ****ing pizza place was closed and any other pizza place that is at least in the same Buddahdamn city ****ing delivers! So I was on the phone with my husband for all of 2 seconds despite how badly I needed to talk to him, not only for emotional support but business reasons as well. I ran down the rest of the battery in my phone using the nav system, ran out of gas, had to stop at 3 different places on the way to get my mom food and a pop and he was on the cell phone that I pay for him to have, calling the airlines and looking up plane tickets home.
When we finally got back to my house he made an even bigger scene, getting his bags out to the car (screaming at me from my front door for my new neighbors to hear) and saying he was going to sleep in the car. I told him to quit acting like that and get inside and go the **** to bed. When he did come back in it was to get his dog and upset my mom even more, poor thing was just stuck with this like I was, and started calling me a cunt and a dope addict and shit and yelling it nonetheless, so the neighbors could hear that too. He was in the house by this point and I wasn't even in the living room I was off in my bedroom but I came flying out for that one.
The dope
addict thing? Well, I'm all hopped up on prenatal vitamins sooo I know aaaaalllll about addiction! LMFAO! Basically, he was drunk, on a few pills and acted like a total douche and then my mom made me let him into my house to stay the night still. What do I do? I am sick of his drunk bs and she is an enabler, no matter how much I love her.

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